The rights of children suffer, speak, remember

I was moved to read the post from Dad bloggers Cristiano room a quote from Alice Miller. I came across a girl in Miller, while studying at university and I will break all his books on children and allowed me to understand many things about myself and mother that I should be.

Her lyrics still produce fruit and guide me in the relationship with my daughter. I tell you now, though, that Miller’s books are manuals for the growth of children, do not contain guidelines for parents. The author, once closely tied to the themes of psychoanalysis, at some point in his life he realized that a certain therapeutic practices did not work.

He realized then that it was necessary to restore the centrality of the child and his feelings , the reality of the facts and the interpretation of these facts. He realized that it was necessary to give little ones the chance to express themselves, get angry, cry, suffer. There seems to assume? We do a test: you show your emotions usually in the family? Cry on the shoulder of a friend? No? Why?