Rule is that if invited to birthday the child is present with a gift, but what if the creature from before comes out with ‘Mom the gift I’ll keep him!’? The poor mother usually asks ‘But what if the gifts you hold?’ Radiant creature has its old game that has obviously lost its charm.
The concept of gift is wonderful when you receive it but it is a different story, talk to the dwarves of selfishness and altruism is perhaps too soon, or at least it is premature to hope for positive results. My children and yours is a complicated affair, despite all good intentions of parents, we certainly can not give it won, but how to get out?
Personally, apart from suppressing a smile, I think we remain steadfast and not give it won both the best solution, but if not successful in the survival and asks for mercy, then keep a reserve for the gift of the most difficult moments, for example when the dwarf says in short is not exactly a friend so important, maybe comes in handy. What do you suggest?