The couple after the birth of the child: what’s new

Reading an article on how to change the habits of the couple after the birth of a child, I remembered the first two years of my daughter’s life. In fact, it’s hard to forget it: on nights spent in the white nights, quarrels over nothing, dark circles, lost sleep, libido below zero (mainly mine).

Do not be alarmed, however, is not this happen for so long to all couples. I am a special case: my daughter has cried at night for three years and during the day she and her dad lived in harmony as a couple in love. Basically what would have happened to me has happened to him.

But back to the big changes . Summarize them there with a little ‘of humor, then look what I told you too overwhelmed. To begin with: the bed is no longer enough, even when we managed to capture the increased desire to have sex, the breasts are just there to feed, needless to compete with the baby, you are no longer so sure of marrying the right person, but when he does his father is irresistible, even when the eye for up early morning (after all you have them, too).

Begin to compare the number of minutes spent with the baby head, touches you plan everything and of course depending on the needs of the little guy, no more gifts, the money used to go to university when the screaming little things, discovering how beautiful it is out of the sun friends (without feeling the absence of her husband and son).

Finally, even when they managed to arrange for an evening gallant, not able to remove the child from the mind and end up talking about how many times did the shit. That said, it is true regret the days when you were alone or when you were a childless couple, but when you find yourself to observe your children grow, learn, know life will know a special feeling of achievement, that of completeness you never imagined.