Parents too attached, children who are struggling to grow

Lately the term attachment is back in the limelight, but in reality is a phenomenon that was used in developmental psychology, is certainly the recent growth of its use in children when mom and dad are too attached or vice versa, but until a few days ago there was talk only of difficulty of separation it appears that most psychologists are putting in the hours lens d ‘magnification the responsibility of parents do not let go.

If you are too attached parents likely to raise a child always convinced of their presence, unable to evaluate and study the world alone, just when they are very small, the visual and physical contact are essential during the first months of life, but too much attachment or a link to the excessive time can be harmful to the baby.

Always sleep with the child, for example, from time psychologists consider it wrong because the child get used to the company even at night, but it is really hard to say what is too much in the relationship between parents and children, in fact until today I read a lot of analysis, but no one has fetched a boundary.

At the end we always return to the starting point, according to many experts who would be the right way to raise a child? The attachment is a normal condition of love, especially because maternal during the first months of life the child lives in symbiosis with the mother, we deprive ourselves of some pleasure, then there will be rubbed in their face? I think in most cases only by the instinct is able to solve any doubt.